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The Significance of the Memorial Meeting
(Editorial
- February 2009)
Our Sunday service is
properly a memorial. It is not a
sacrifice, but it memorializes a sacrifice. It is not a sacrament, that
is, an act which mechanically appropriates grace to the doer. Rather,
it is simply a memorial, a means of remembering the act that conferred
grace upon us:
"Do this,
whenever you drink it, in remembrance of me" (1Cor 11:25).
If we are to live up to the New Testament pattern, we
must be a family gathered around a table, partaking of a meal and in so
doing remembering an absent member. It is an uncomplicated act, an act
of loving companionship, of warmth and familiarity, not of pomp and
ceremony.
We do not break bread and drink wine in order to assert
any superiority over outsiders. We do not break bread and drink wine as
a substitute for the rigorous discipline of service to God in its many
features, to which the Truth calls us. Neither do we break bread and
drink wine to encourage personal feelings of self-righteousness or
complacency. (We must beware, because frequent repetition, instead of
fostering memory, can in fact encourage forgetfulness of the principles
involved.)
Purely and simply, we partake of these emblems in order
to remember: first, God’s love; second, Christ’s
sacrifice; and third, our duty.
There are two absolutely essential aspects of worship:
baptism and the memorial supper. Baptism is the process by which the
believer is "born"
into his new, spiritual family. And the Breaking of Bread is the
perpetuation of that family life begun at baptism, by the repeated
affirmation of the believer’s membership in the marvelous
family of God.
Why are there two different emblems? The obvious answer
is that the bread represents Christ’s body and the wine his
blood. But that answer seems somewhat inadequate since either one alone
might symbolize, almost as well as both together, his sacrificial
death. Is there some further distinction?
In part it is this: the bread represents the strength of
our Lord’s life, a life totally dedicated to the will of the
Father. The wine more aptly represents his death, the blood willingly
poured out as a climax to his life’s work.
The bread was broken and passed to each disciple. Each
disciple drank a portion from the cup. But we must not suppose that
this dividing up of the emblems implies, in any sense, that Christ can
be divided among us, or that we in any sense partake of only a portion
of the blessings involved. All the blessings belong to every individual
among us. The bread must be broken in order that many can share it;
there is just no other way to accomplish the practical object of
providing each brother and sister a portion to eat. But the body that
the bread represents, Christ’s multitudinous spiritual body,
cannot be broken; it is one:
"Because
there is one loaf, we, who are many, are one body" (1Cor
10:17).
And the body is united, "held together" or "knit together" in
love with the Head, which is Christ himself (Col 2:2,19).
The
component parts of the Memorial Meeting
It may be profitable to consider, item by item, the
component parts of the Memorial Meeting, as to the significance of each:
- First of all, in keeping with Habakkuk 2:20, we
should enter the meeting room and take our seats, as much as possible,
in a spirit of quietness
and meditation. Now is the time for serious
thought, preparation and self-examination. Despite the ordinariness of
the surroundings, if that is the case, we are nevertheless coming into
the very presence of God. As for being late, when it is avoidable: This
is not just wrong because we have the potential of disturbing our
brothers and sisters, but also (and especially) because it is an
appointment with God. Is this important? Consider the parable of the
virgins in Matthew 25:1-13: the foolish virgins, not being prepared
ahead of time, came late to the marriage feast to find the door shut
against them.
- General
appearance and dress: In this, as in many
areas of our life in the Truth, no hard-and-fast rules can (or should)
be imposed. But surely we can be governed by intelligence and common
sense. How would we dress for a special occasion such as meeting some
important human dignitary? How would we behave at such a meeting? Let
us answer such questions for ourselves, and then realize, with wonder
and awe, that on Sundays we are going to meet the Lord of the Universe
and His Son!
- The
presiding brother: Presiding is perhaps the most
important duty of all, more important to the memorial meeting as a
whole than exhorting. The presiding brother’s is the first
voice to be heard; it is his duty to set and maintain the tone of the
meeting. By his presence, attitude, and words he brings unity and
continuity to the whole service. His duty is also to introduce the
central feature of the whole worship service, the partaking of the
emblems. This should require preparation (and prayer) at home, even
before coming to the meeting. Our minds are drawn to that first
Memorial Meeting, in the upper room in Jerusalem, where Jesus was the
first presiding brother, conveying a pervasive calm and confidence to
his brethren, by which he demonstrated to them God’s presence
and God’s love.
- Music
and singing: This can become something of an
ordeal in some meetings, when those who play and those who sing may be
very aware of their inadequacies. So it must be remembered that our
hymns are not important as a display of technical skill, but only for
the spiritual quality of the worship itself. It is entirely possible to
sing (and play) in the spirit that Jesus condemned:
"These
people honor me with their lips, but their hearts are far from me"
(Matt 15:8).
In short, the words and their message must always be the
motivating principle in our hymns.
- Bible
readings: The crucial point to recognize here,
as in every Bible reading, is that God is speaking to us:
"This
is
what the LORD says: ‘Heaven is my throne, and the earth is my
footstool. Where is the house you will build for me? Where will my
resting place be? Has not my hand made all these things, and so they
came into being?’ declares the LORD. ‘This is the
one I esteem: he who is humble and contrite in spirit, and trembles at
my word’ " (Isa 66:1,2).
As with
prayers, there should be no unnecessary
movements, no interruptions, and no noise. Whether we speak to God (in
prayers and hymns) or God speaks to us (in Bible readings), we are
dealing with divine communications.
- Collection:
Although we were not redeemed by
corruptible things such as silver and gold, we cannot escape from their
use in the service of God. It is our privilege to consecrate what we
have of this world’s goods to the service of the Giver of all
things.
In our day there is
the need for money and resources in
God’s service. There is the rent or purchase of a meeting
room or hall; there are the poor, the elderly, the children and young
people to whom we have special responsibility. The word must be
preached, and the meetings advertised; there are the funds collected
centrally for special causes and special occasions.
How do we give? How much do we give? We should give
willingly, as though giving were — which it is — a
service to Christ personally. How much? That depends on the giver. Two
factors govern how much we give: our ability to give (income), and our
spirit (generous or otherwise). Typically, Christadelphians downplay
this aspect of worship. But our own low-key system should not be an
excuse for minimum contributions. Our financial contribution is one
means of showing our heavenly Father how much we value His love.
- Prayers: Public
prayers should be relevant (i.e.,
related to the object at hand, whether an opening prayer, prayer on
behalf of others, thanks for bread or wine, etc.) and not repetitious.
Prayers should be fresh and spontaneous, if possible. Prayers are best
when offered in common, everyday language — not archaic,
artificial ‘Sunday only’ speech. If we are not
sure, the pattern of Jesus in what is commonly called "the Lord’s prayer"
will surely give us direction.
- The
exhortation is not primarily a Bible exposition;
it need not be particularly technical. Neither is it the best place to
teach, or to teach again, the first principles. Instead, it is
primarily an introduction to the emblems of bread and wine, and
therefore an aid to remembrance and self-examination. An exhortation
should emphasize God’s holiness and purity and love, and the
awesome responsibility of our calling to serve Him. It should not
discourage, but rather encourage and comfort (which is the primary
meaning of the Greek word translated "exhort"). It
should, above all else, show us Christ. Wherever our thoughts and words
take us as we contemplate God’s message, there we will find
Christ: the central character in the Bible. If the exhortation has done
its work, we will leave the Memorial Meeting feeling and acting as
though we have been changed for the better:
"When
they saw the courage of Peter and John and realized that they were
unschooled, ordinary men, they were astonished and they took note that
these men had been with Jesus" (Acts 4:13).
- The
spirit of the occasion: The memorials themselves
have been sufficiently discussed above, as to their significance. In "proclaiming the
Lord’s death until he comes" (1Cor 11:26), our
Memorial Meeting is like a funeral. In attending a funeral we are
showing respect for the dead, and for the occasion. We are also
recognizing, for ourselves as well, the solemnity of both life and
death, and how, in our daily lives, we come in contact with eternal
things. "Ask not for
whom the bell tolls; it tolls for thee." Surely, if we
grasp this fact, we need not worry that we will forget to examine
ourselves.
This is, of course, an extraordinary funeral, for the
one who was dead is now alive, gloriously and eternally so! The natural
seriousness of the occasion should be tempered by the joy of this
realization. What a promise for us there is in our Lord’s
words:
"I will
not drink of this fruit of the vine from now on until that day when I
drink it anew with you in my Father’s kingdom"
(Matt 26:29).
The serving brothers at the Memorial Meeting are thus
— at the same time — pallbearers at a funeral, and
forerunners of an immortal king, who will come in his glory to reign
from his throne. Observe pallbearers at a state funeral, as well as
those who attend monarchs on state occasions, for some sense of the
dignity required in such a job.
- Conclusion:
After a final hymn and prayer, a brief
musical interlude closes the meeting. This is not a convenient
background to cover the noise of shuffling feet and whispers about
lunch plans. Rather, it is a final quiet moment to gather together the
threads of thoughts from the worship, and to prepare to face the rest
of the day and the week to follow — being sure that Christ is
going with us as we leave the meeting.
Remember, our service can be beautiful and holy even
without the external trappings of an expensive building and a large
congregation. Christ on a mountainside, or in a secluded room with a
dozen friends, could lead the most holy of services. And so it may
still be:
"For
where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them"
(Matt 18:20).
George
Booker
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